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You Night St. Tammany Class of 2019 Turn the Beat Around Thursday, October 24th Castine Center
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You Night helps women embrace life beyond cancer.
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Specializing in Vulva Vaginal Disorders, Pelvic Pain, Sexual Dysfunction and Lichen Scierosus www.SIWSH.com
We realized that with every beat of our heart, our goal and what we strive to achieve day in and day out is to provide a platform for true wellness for our patients and to create an environment of thriving and not just surviving. We all have a certain rhythm inside, the beat that pushes us through each and every day and all of the demands that may challenge us. What we deal with daily trains us for the battle of a lifetime, that moment when we need to drum up the determination and stay steadfast to the goal of not just recovery but becoming a better version of ourselves through the process. Each instrument in a symphonyalone sounds good, but when masterfully brought together it creates a much grander sound, one that provides joy and fulfillment to those that not only listen, but those that are a part of creating the sound. Whether you are a survivor, a newly diagnosed patient, or a provider, we all have one thing in common.... we fight with everything we have to live the best life, helping those around us along the way. The providers and staff at the Center for Women's Health, have been committed for the last 7 years to being a legacy sponsor for You Night because we believe that everyone should have the opportunity to celebrate their victories, and have a platform for new opportunities and possibilities. Our field of practice is focusing on women's health and overall wellness but celebrating their successes and supporting them in their trials is an endeavor we most enjoy. CWH strives to provide an environment that focuses on the patient, her needs, wellness, and any healthcare concerns she may be experiencing in surroundings that will provide the best opportunity for success. The providers at the Center for Women's Health specialize in normal as well as high risk pregnancies, extensive robotic gynecological surgeries, as well as the development of programs for conditions that contribute to health issues that are very specific to women of all ages such as interstitial cystitis and polycystic ovarian syndrome to name just a few. We thought about what it takes to write a masterpiece, what it takes to bring together the sounds of success and wellness for our patients. We realized that our patients and our community need to know a little bit more about the women that move to the beat of a different drum, one that takes sacrifice and diligence to help our patients through both the high and low notes of their life. A successful symphony or band is only as good as its conductor. CWH attributes much of its success in healthcare and business to its leader who has a continued positive vision for the women in this community, Katherine L Williams, M.D. Inspired by the plight of many breast cancer survivors, she continues to address obstetric and gynecological concerns and has realized a calling to help women who are experiencing female sexual dysfunction. She has practiced in OB/GYN for over 20 years, is an expert in robotic surgery, and is a fellow in ACOG and ISSWArSH. She continues to be an integral part of many leadership roles in the community, fighting with passion and integrity for women and our families. Dr Rachel Cresap M.D. is a fellow of ACOG and has practiced for over 10 years in this community taking care of women in all stages of their obstetric and gynecological lives. She exudes a passion to go the extra mile often for her patients, the staff here at CWH and our community. Her love of medicine cannot be compared to her love of her family and what her husband Randy and her two children John and Ann mean to her. There are those that provide the bass and sharp notes to create the an amazing tempo to the song of life . Dr Jamie Hymel M.D. is a board certified OB/GYN and has been with CWH for 4 years now. As her love for taking care of women from early teens through menopause has grown, so has her desire to be everything she can be as physician in this community. She understands the demands that are placed on women today and is truly excited to add to her genre of expertise. Dr Hymel is excited to be able to soon provide robotic surgery to her patients as a means of reducing the burden of surgical recovery. We were all created as instruments to make sweet music. Kelly N. Brewster, W.H.N.P has been doing just that for the last 16 years with CWH. She is a patient advocate and truly tries to address all of their needs through adolescence and into menopause. She has become an expert in the field related to polycystic ovarian syndrome and insulin resistance, serving not only women in our local community but working with those throughout our state as well. Leading is in her nature and she has taken on an administrative role at CWH for the last 5 years providing an avenue for future growth and success for the practice. Harmony is best experienced when working as a team. Casey Barnes, a certified Family Nurse Practitioner, has now been part of the CWH family for 2 years. She adds to the team through her 6 years of experience as a Registered Nurse in Women's and Infant Services most recently at St Tammany Parish Hospital. Although new to the team, her addition proves to be significant due to her passion in taking care of women throughout their lifespan with great care and professionalism. It is our hope, as seasoned musicians for the You Night cause that we would generate an unquenchable desire in you to be a part of continuing to create the Sound of Music for so many and to make a difference for cancer survivors, but more than this to make an indelible mark in your world and the world around you. We congratulate the cancer survivors tonight. We know that you can't beat the feeling of thriving at this moment in time and hope that as you flashdance through life that the rhythm will always get you!
PICTURED FROM THE CENTER FOR WOMEN'S HEALTH (Back Row) Kelly N. Brewster, WHNP, Casey Barnes, FNP, (Front Row) Jamie Hymel, M.D., Katherine L. Williams, M.D., Rachael Cresap, M.D. 104 Innwood Drive Covington, LA 70433 Phone: 985-249-7022 Fax: 985-249-7048
Every Beat of Our Heart!
Center for Women's Health
Specializing in Robotic Surgery, Normal and High Risk Pregnancy, Menopause and Gynecological Care www.cwhnorthshore.com
PICTURED FROM THE SOUTHERN INSTITUTE FOR WOMEN'S SEXUAL HEALTH: Kelly N.Brewster, WHNP, Jay Saux, M.D., Katherine L. Williams, M.D., Michelle Sierra, PT K
We realized that with every beat of our heart, our goal and what we strive to achieve day in and day out is to provide a platform for true wellness for our patients and to create an environment of thriving and not just surviving. We all have a certain rhythm inside, the beat that pushes us through each and every day and all of the demands that may challenge us. What we deal with daily trains us for the battle of a lifetime, that moment when we need to drum up the determination and stay steadfast to the goal of not just recovery but becoming a better version of ourselves through the process. Each instrument in a symphony alone sounds good, but when masterfully brought together it creates a much grander sound, one that provides joy and fulfillment to those that not only listen, but those that are a part of creating the sound. Whether you are a survivor, a newly diagnosed patient, or a provider, we all have one thing in common.... we fight with everything we have to live the best life, helping those around us along the way. The providers and staff at the Center for Women's Health, have been committed for the last 7 years to being a legacy sponsor for You Night because we believe that everyone should have the opportunity to celebrate their victories, and have a platform for new opportunities and possibilities. Our field of practice is focusing on women's health and overall wellness but celebrating their successes and supporting them in their trials is an endeavor we most enjoy. CWH strives to provide an environment that focuses on the patient, her needs, wellness, and any healthcare concerns she may be experiencing in surroundings that will provide the best opportunity for success. The providers at the Center for Women's Health specialize in normal as well as high risk pregnancies, extensive robotic gynecological surgeries, as well as the development of programs for conditions that contribute to health issues that are very specific to women of all ages such as interstitial cystitis and polycystic ovarian syndrome to name just a few. We thought about what it takes to write a masterpiece, what it takes to bring together the sounds of success and wellness for our patients. We realized that our patients and our community need to know a little bit more about the women that move to the beat of a different drum, one that takes sacrifice and diligence to help our patients through both the high and low notes of their life. A successful symphony or band is only as good as its conductor. CWH attributes much of its success in healthcare and business to its leader who has a continued positive vision for the women in this community, Katherine L Williams, M.D. Inspired by the plight of many breast cancer survivors, she continues to address obstetric and gynecological concerns and has realized a calling to help women who are experiencing female sexual dysfunction. She has practiced in OB/GYN for over 20 years, is an expert in robotic surgery, and is a fellow in ACOG and ISSWArSH. She continues to be an integral part of many leadership roles in the community, fighting with passion and integrity for women and our families. Dr Rachel Cresap M.D. is a fellow of ACOG and has practiced for over 10 years in this community taking care of women in all stages of their obstetric and gynecological lives. She exudes a passion to go the extra mile often for her patients, the staff here at CWH and our community. Her love of medicine cannot be compared to her love of her family and what her husband Randy and her two children John and Ann mean to her. There are those that provide the bass and sharp notes to create the an amazing tempo to the song of life . Dr Jamie Hymel M.D. is a board certified OB/GYN and has been with CWH for 4 years now. As her love for taking care of women from early teens through menopause has grown, so has her desire to be everything she can be as physician in this community. She understands the demands that are placed on women today and is truly excited to add to her genre of expertise. Dr Hymel is excited to be able to soon provide robotic surgery to her patients as a means of reducing the burden of surgical recovery. We were all created as instruments to make sweet music. Kelly N. Brewster, W.H.N.P has been doing just that for the last 16 years with CWH. She is a patient advocate and truly tries to address all of their needs through adolescence and into menopause. She has become an expert in the field related to polycystic ovarian syndrome and insulin resistance, serving not only women in our local community but working with those throughout our state as well. Leading is in her nature and she has taken on an administrative role at CWH for the last 5 years providing an avenue for future growth and success for the practice. Harmony is best experienced when working as a team. Casey Barnes, a certified Family Nurse Practitioner, has now been part of the CWH family for 2 years. She adds to the team through her 6 years of experience as a Registered Nurse in Women's and Infant Services most recently at St Tammany Parish Hospital. Although new to the team, her addition proves to be significant due to her passion in taking care of women throughout their lifespan with great care and professionalism. It is our hope, as seasoned musicians for the You Night cause that we would generate an unquenchable desire in you to be a part of continuing to create the Sound of Music for so many and to make a difference for cancer survivors, but more than this to make an indelible mark in your world and the world around you. We congratulate the cancer survivors tonight. We know that you can't beat the feeling of thriving at this moment in time and hope that as you flashdance through life that the rhythm will always get you!
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Pictured: You Night St. Tammany Role Model Class of 2018 Jannie Markey
Pictured: You Night St. Tammany Role Model Class of 2018 Shelly Deynoodt
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GRAND FINALE Jeans by Jean Therapy 5505 Magazine St. New Orleans
Official Salon
CONTEMPORARY Bliss The Villa Stella Dallas Chico's Ballins
FORMAL WEAR Columbia Street Mercantile Southern Bridal Dreams
Hair and Make-up for the St. Tammany Class of 2019 provided by H2o Salon Northshore & Air Salon & Blow Dry Bar
With love and appreciation, The You Night Production Team EXECUTIVE TEAM: Lisa McKenzie , Founder/ Executive Producer Tara Huguet / Administration Becky Gilbert Logistics & Guest Registration Manager Angela Becnel / Catering & Logistics Deborah Tonguis, Programs Team Leader Deborah Tonguis, St Tammany Board of Advisors Chair Angela Palmisano, You Night St Tammany Team Leader Deidra Langridge and Denise Gassiot, Sponsorship Elaine Roark, Producer of the Producer FAB FOUR ST. TAMMANY ALUMS: Kristen Gonzalez, Tammy Riley, Julie Taglauer, Shelly Deynoodt Shannon Wilson, Social Media Holley Haag, Media Relations RUNWAY COACHES AND EVENT TEAM: Tammy Broussard, Leslie Legania Shelby & Lauren Siegel Leslie Legania Shelby, Alum Choreography Joyce Varghese, Music Video Choreography Dylan Maras, Photography and Videography (White Donut Productions) Joy Kampen , Correspondence Julie Hubert, Boutique Tracie Morris Schaefer, Studio U Photography Cheryl Dendinger & Ysonde Strecker, Dressing Room Grey Spiller and Greg Huguet, On-Site Logistics Coordinator Sharon Judice, Guest Experience RETREAT CHAIRPERSONS: Gina Pausina Cherry, Sue Ellen Stewart, Tammy Riley, Shannon Wilson, Susan Stewart, Tasha Watson, Lori Upton Michael Holmes and the Knights for all of their help!
Pictured: Kristen Gonzalez, You Night St. Tammany Class of 2018 wearing Jean Therapy and You Night Crystal T-Shirt (available at the You Night boutique)
You Night is a program made possible from funding by the "We Lift You Up" Fund --a 501(c)3 fund whose mission is to help women embrace life beyond cancerr. FEIN #82-4444545
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With 14 million cancer survivors in the United States today, there is a growing need to address the emotional and physical needs that women have after a cancer diagnosis. As we continue to develop our programs, we learn of greater ways we can help serve the patients, their families and the medical community through empowering group experiences that serve as a unique sisterhood and support group. Many individuals make this program possible, including our coaches, sponsors, salons, boutiques and countless number of volunteers. Thank you also to the friends and family members who came tonight to support these brave models as they share their personal journeys, and celebrate their strength and newfound sisterhood. The time we have spent with the models preparing for this event has been very special, and has indeed united us all. To date, 300 participants from St. Tammany and New Orleans have joined the You Night Sisterhood, founded in 2013. 24 new sisters will be walking the runway tonight. Thanks to sponsorship and attendee ticket sales, You Night is able to gift the six month empowerment experience to our participants. You Night's mission is to help women embrace life after a cancer diagnosis. It is our hope that this program will help address the many needs of survivorship, and that the You Night experience will have lasting, positive impact in the lives of all involved. It is our belief that empowering individuals will positively spill out into the community, serving as hope and inspiration for others.
GRAND FINALE Jean Therapy
Hair & Make up by Air Salon & Blow Dry Bar. Styled by Columbia Street Mercantile, Bliss and Jean Therapy
Hair & Make up by H20. Styled by Columbia Street Mercantile, Bliss and Jean Therapy
Christina Bodenheimer
Collette Marietta
Jill Vicknair
Victoria Lopez
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Hair & Make up by Air Salon & Blow Dry Bar, Styled by Columbia Street Mercantile, Bliss and Jean Thearpy
Mindy Lane
Hair & Make up by Air Salon & Blow Dry Bar,. Styled by Columbia Street Mercantile, Ballin's and Jean Therapy
Stephanie Mize
Hair & Make up by Air Salon & Blow Dry Bar, Styled by Columbia Street Mercantile, Stella Dallas and Jean Therapy
Gail Keller
Amber Swenson
Hair & Make up by Air Salon & Blow Dry Bar, Styled by Columbia Street Mercantile, Bliss and Jean Therapy
Hair & Make up by H20. Styled by Southern Bridal Dreams, Chico's and Jean Therapy
Christine Morris
Hair & Make up by Air Salon & Blow Dry Bar, Styled by Columbia Street Mercantile, Stella Dallas, and Jean Therapy
Agnes Freeman
Rebecca Mitchell
Hair & Make up by H20. Styled by Southern Bridal Dreams, The Villa and Jean Therapy
Hair & Make up by Air Salon & Blow Dry Bar, Styled by Columbia Steet Mercantile, and Jean Therapy
Georgia Gras
Kim Rogers
Heidi Rhea
Christine Waller
Margaret Rogers
Sharon Hartzog
Hair & Make up by H20. Styled by Southern Bridal, The Villa and Jean Therapy
Lexie Wildey
Witney Arch
Hanna McCarroll
Hair & Make up by H20. Styled by Southern Bridal Dreams, Ballin's and Jean Therapy
Hair & Make up by H20. Styled by Southern Bridal Dreams, Stella Dallas and Jean Therapy
Hair & Make up by Air Salon & Blow Dry Bar, Styling by Columbia Street Mercantile, The Villa and Jean Therapy
St. Tammany Class of 2019 TURN THE BEAT AROUND
Hair & Make up by H20. Styled by Southern Bridal Dreams, Bliss and Jean Therapy
Mary Perl
In loving memory of Dreama, a huge supporter of You Night, and the most loving, selfless, and kindhearted, wife, mother, and friend.
Missie Noel
Becky Kruse
Hair & Make up by H20. Styled by Southern Bridal Dreams, Chico's and Jean Therapy,
Margaret Rogers I had just heard the doctor say, "Unfortunately I have bad news...you have cancer". Triple Negative Ductal Carcinoma. Surely, she was mistaken. How could that be? I exercise daily, run over three miles, eat the healthiest of foods. I'm a Christian, I've served God almost all the days of my life. For over 30 years I have volunteered my life, my talents and my resources on a weekly vasis. I even volunteer for You Night, a program just for womrn with cancer! I have been with Lisa McKenzie from the beginning, working with people who have had cancer. I've always thought of myself as the giver and not the receiver. Life really is fragile. Nonetheless, I would do what all those brave wormen that had done before me. I'd put on my big girl panties! I whispered to myself, "Bring it on...let's do this". I knew once the word got out there would be no way it could be retracted. It would be forever out and everyone would look at me differently. 'Good news travels fast and bad news travels faster'. At that moment I decided to keep my diagnosis to myself as long as I could, not even telling my family nor my daughters. I knew from that point on, my life would never be the same. Before all the Chemo, surgeries and side effects began, I just wanted to live these next few weeks as me, my normal self. When I finally began telling people, all I could think about was how cancer would be so humbling, humiliating, and embarrassing. When I told my daughters, they had different reactions. Victoria my oldest was very sensitive, sentimental, and offered to help in anyway. My youngest daughter Amanda said “Mom, you will be OK. We work with You Night and we see the ladies; they are survivors.” Working with You Night, I have seen many ladies and heard many stories. Now I know what it's like to be on the other side. But the most devastating story I heard was personal: when my sister was diagnosed with a rare form of ovarian cancer. I wanted her to be in the program; unfortunately, she never got the chance. So, when I'm on the stage, I'll have her memories on the forefront of my heart. Now I’m thankful to be on the receiving side of the You Night program. I’ve received lots of love, strength, encouragement and most of all friendships that will last a lifetime; a sisterhood that is life changing. ‘You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have’. Cancer gave me courage, Cancer made me look at myself in a different light, Cancer helped me see what I was made of. Cancer gave me the courage to make changes, the courage to do things that I would never have done. I'm thankful that God had me at the right place at the right time. I love You Night events, I'm thankful to have the best doctors, Dr. Jay Saux, Dr. Celeste LaGarde and Dr. M'Liss Hogan. I will love you forever. And many thanks to those who love an support me. Life really is a journey, I'm happy, I'm moving on. I Can-cer Vive!
Hanna Byers McCarroll In 2017, I found out I was pregnant with our 3rd child and it was a BOY! Our first son was due in December. But in November, a lump appeared overnight above my clavicle. Being 9 months pregnant there was nothing we could do other than wait until the baby was born and have it biopsied. I tried my hardest to remain positive, but like many other cancer patients, sometimes you just know. I had a healthy baby boy and soon after got my results. I had cancer. CANCER. Hodgkins Lymphoma. Me? Again? I thought my troubles with this were over. In 2009 after giving birth to my first child, my leg began to give out on me. After several doctor visits, an X-ray revealed a tumor destroying my knee and femur. It was believed to be osteosarcoma, metastasizing to my lungs. A leg amputation would prolong my life only long enough to try to beat the “spots” on my lungs. I refused to give up. I went to MD Anderson and was told the previous hospital diagnosed me incorrectly. It was a giant cell tumor and my leg would be salvaged. The “spots” on my lungs turned out to be scar tissue from spinal surgery I received from scoliosis as a child. It was no mistake. It was the power of prayer. I had God on my side. I had a total knee replacement and partial femur replacement. I thought my run in with life threatening diseases was over. Nope. My testimony wasn’t over. Now I would fight Stage 2 Hodgkin’s lymphoma. As a mother of 3, I cried to God, “Why me? Why again?”. I had so many blessings to be grateful for, but it was time to fight again. After several months of chemotherapy and weeks of radiation, I was in remission. I survived “the red devil” and the radiation mask. My next battle will be removing my thyroid due to suspicious nodules that keep growing. Cancer made me stronger. It made me love harder and appreciate those who love me. It made strangers pray and care for me. It brought us together by our faith. I can never thank my husband, kids, mom, family, friends that I love as family, all those “strangers” that I hold close to my heart enough, and all of my You Night sisters. My sisters, I hear you, I see you, I understand you, and I love you. I won’t stop fighting, and I’ll fight with you.
Collette Marietta My life story with cancer starts different than most. I was diagnosed with adenoid cystic carcinoma (‘ACC’) at 17 years of age. I was most likely born with it, but it took 17 years for this cancer to be diagnosed. At the time I was diagnosed, my parents were told I had a 20% chance of living ten years, and if I got married to not have children until after the ten-year mark. Thankfully, the surgery to remove the parotid gland and the subsequent radiation to my head and neck were successful. Since that early experience, I have lived life NOT fearful of death because I know I am blessed with the Grace of God and will be going to heaven to sit at the feet of the Lord. From the point of diagnosis, I wanted to live life to the fullest each day -- never to take a day for granted. Today, my ENT Oncology Surgeons have told me that I may be the longest living survivor of ACC. You see, I am blessed even though I have had four additional types of cancer since my original cancer -- most likely due to the amount of radiation received to kill the ACC. I went over 30 years without an additional cancer. In 2011, I was diagnosed with Thyroid Cancer. In 2013, it was Ductal Insitu Breast Cancer (DCIS) and subsequent Basal Cell Cancers in the region I had received radiation. Then in 2016, I was diagnosed with Squamous Cell Cancer in the Ear Canal. These were all treated with surgeries by various sub-specialists. With my last cancer surgery, three surgeons, two anesthesia doctors and 40 other medical staff worked on me for 11 hours. They removed the cancer and saved my ear, putting it back on after removing it, although I lost all my hearing in my left ear. I now take 12 pills in the morning and 11 pills at night to help me through the day from constant pain and various side effects of all the surgeries. The doctors tell me I will continue to have cancers caused by the radiation. God leads us down His chosen path to make us stronger and appreciate every day. He has blessed me with my soul mate and care giver, two wonderful children we adopted from Russia, supportive family and friends, as well as the many talented healthcare providers who have treated me over the years. My blessings continue with my work in clinical research to help others. Finally, my latest blessing has been to be part of this fantastic organization called You Night. The friendships I have developed I know will last a lifetime.
Georgia Gras Katrina created many challenges for everyone. One of which was to get in to see your doctor in a timely manner. Therefore, I was remiss in scheduling my annual check-up with my doctor. I was previously diagnosed with fibrocystic breast disease. Therefore, I was religious about getting my annual mammograms, but this time. In 2009, I began a new position at work which took up a lot of my time, and I kept putting off going to the doctor. However, in the early part of that year, my cousin was diagnosed with Stage 4 breast cancer. I continued to put off making my doctor’s appointment, even with this news. However, unbeknownst to me, my husband actually called and made my doctor’s appointment. This is where my journey begins. I went in for my mammogram, ultrasound and then an MRI. A biopsy would follow. My thanks to Dr. Wells (now deceased) and Dr. Rupley of Touro Imaging, as they found my cancer in its early stage. Dr Rupley refers to me as Ms. Complicated due to the density of the fibrocystic breast disease. Over the next weeks/months, I had a lumpectomy at East Jefferson Hospital followed by radiation. You see so many different people during this process. Each one provides you with so much information that you leave there with your head spinning. I was later referred to an oncologist, Dr. Burroff. While lying on the table during radiation, my mind would go to my happy place, which is walking on the beach, as this was very scary to me. Thankfully, each treatment did not last very long. I was no sooner getting started on my walk, in my mind, when the radiation was over with. After six weeks of radiation, I was placed on Tamoxifen for five years and subsequently was switched to Evista. During the times of the radiation treatments, I wanted to fast forward to a time when I no longer had to have a machine put radiation into my body. I would make a joke of my treatments because I did not want my family to worry. However, I was terrified of that machine. I just knew that I had to get through this. I had too many people depending on me. I am happy and blessed to report that I have made my 10 year anniversary without any cancer. Although there were some scares along the way, the additional biopsies were all negative. Looking back, the doctor saying: “You have Cancer” was very frightening to me. However, I have learned so much about myself since my original diagnosis. I found out that I am strong and can handle a lot. This would prepare me for events to come in my life. The last visit to the oncologist, now Dr. Sheen, was a good one. She assured me that 10 years without reoccurrence is a good sign. I was fortunate to be introduced to this wonderful organization of “You Night”. This Sisterhood has helped me in so many ways, which included surviving the death of my spouse. Every day I count my blessings for I am truly blessed with good health, family and wonderful friends. I think of how many friends and relatives that are no longer with us because of some form of cancer. I am truly humbled that I am still here. Therefore, when I walk the stage tonight, I will do so for all the friends, family members and women who are no longer here with us, including those who are at home fighting the battle.
Jill Vicknair At the age of 46, I discovered a tiny lump on my left breast one January morning in 2018. I contacted my doctor and changed my routine mammogram to a diagnostic mammogram. A biopsy ensued on January 30th which resulted in a phone call within 36 hours from my pathologist. “Are you alone? Are you driving? Can you pull over?” I knew it was cancer at that point. I was given a diagnosis of Stage 1 ER/PR+ HER2- invasive DCIS breast cancer. Life stopped at that moment. What next? How do I proceed? What steps do I take? How do I tell my two sons, friends and family? My husband and I made the decision to keep my diagnosis to ourselves until we had a plan in place. I couldn’t fathom disrupting my sons lives with worry. All I knew was I must take the most comprehensive steps toward saving my life. That journey became a double mastectomy with reconstruction in March 2018. My lymph nodes were not affected and several weeks later I received a low oncotype score…praise God! I am taking Tamoxifen for at least five years. I had a total hysterectomy in December 2018. I do bloodwork every three months and, praise God, I am well today…hot flashes, joint pain and all. When I was asked to join You Night, my immediate reaction was I’m not worthy to be a part of a group like this. I am so blessed to have been cleared with minimal treatment…no chemo, no radiation. I didn’t want to take the place of someone fighting a harder fight than me. The reality is, I did not realize how much this group of women would help me. All You Night women are on a cancer journey and, while each individual battle is unique, we are alike in that we are all striving to cope with this new normal…a life with a cancer diagnosis. The lesson in my cancer journey is to try and stay present in the moment and realize the blessings all around me. We are defined by what we carry in life and what we carry can either eat us alive or enlighten and strengthen us. I choose to be enlightened and strengthened. Being still in the moment is necessary to get through the daunting task of cancer. God’s blessings surround us all every day. Pause and observe the little things that add up to enormous blessings.
Witney Arch Right before I turned 40 years old, I found out I was pregnant with my fourth baby. I was in shock, overwhelmed and stressed. Just two years later, my surprise baby would end up saving my life. Beau was born in 2016 with a rare neurological disease called Sturge-Weber Syndrome. It’s a cruel disease, and we were not prepared to take on the task of having a medically needy child. It wasn’t part of my plan. But I soon discovered it was part of God’s plan. When Beau was 1 1/2 years old, he was playing outside. He was upset that I was making him come inside, and he twisted my nipple. It hurt so badly and within two days, I had a discharge. My milk came back even though I had not nursed in a year. I was in pain for over a month when I noticed a reddish/brownish discharge. And then one day, I saw blood just seeping out of my nipple. My OB/GYN and breast surgeon recommended surgery because they thought it was a duct papilloma. I had an ultrasound, and the radiologist found nothing. On her report, she wrote twice “probably benign”. She gave me a 12.58% chance of having cancer. She wrote, “I reassured the patient”. I had a clear mammogram in August; I was young; I had no family history of breast cancer, and that December my ultrasound was clear. I was not worried. After two rounds of testing, the pathology reports came back. The specimen that they removed was 3/4 full of aggressive cancer cells. I was stunned. No one was expecting this. I had five surgeries in one year. I chose to do the DIEP Flap reconstruction after my mastectomy which is incredibly invasive, but I never once questioned my decision. I could not hold my baby for 18 weeks that year. My friends, family, church and perfect strangers rallied around our family and set up meal trains, laundry schedules, ran errands, had my kids over for play dates, set up cleaning services, donated money for my surgeries, which were not covered by insurance, and prayed for us. My cancer diagnosis rocked our world but showed us the goodness in people, the power of prayer and showed us that God would equip us even when we felt powerless. I finally realized just why God gave me my surprise baby. Despite clear mammograms and ultrasounds, I had two inches of cancer removed from my body, and my baby found it. In the middle of trying to make Beau’s life better, he ended up saving mine. ~ Faith Over Fear ~
Amber Swenson “Just a moment” was a statement I used frequently, but in the early days of January 2017, it would come to have an entirely new meaning. As I was taking a shower one evening, my hand ran across something that did not belong to my body. It was lump on my left breast. As I told my husband what I discovered, we both felt uneasy. The next week and a half of my life was a blur. The lump went from a “cyst” to “vascular and irregular.” Even the ultrasound technician had an expression on her face that could have mapped out my future right then and there. Then it happened: In ‘just a moment’, I was handed a Vera Bradley bag full of scary information and told I had breast cancer at 33 years of age. The warmth left my body, only to be replaced by a frigid feeling of doom. My breath escaped from every inch of my lungs. I sat there with my husband, stunned. The doctor appointments started soon after, and the information came in like an avalanche. Words like “chemotherapy” and “double mastectomy” were swirling in my brain. Within a few short weeks, I began an aggressive chemo regimen that would last 5 months, followed by radiation, more chemo, and 4 reconstructive surgeries. I started leaning on God in a way I never imagined I would have. In a time of such darkness and chaos, all I wanted to do was be a light for Him. Every night I called out to God and asked for strength and purpose. He gave me a calming peace and the reassurance that He would be with me and never leave me. The outcry of support I received through something I never thought could happen to me, was humbling. My husband, Caleb, held the weight of the world on his shoulders for all of us. And as our vows were put to the test with this sickness, he pressed into me and loved me harder. My two babies, Owen and Dylan, snuggled up next to me in the doctors’ offices and told me I was beautiful. I want to give special thanks to my mom and stepdad, Diana, Carina, Rosalie, Pastor Byron and Liz, Jennifer, and my wonderful and trustworthy team of doctors at The Center for Restorative Breast Surgery. You Night is a remarkable organization that is allowing women to feel beautiful again. Not the type of beauty you see on the outside, but the beauty that God has gifted us within. I cannot wait to rock that runway! You are altogether beautiful, my love; there is no flaw in you.- Song of Solomon 4:7
Victoria Lopez 2017 started as a year of love, life and adventure, a new husband and a move from Minnesota to Louisiana. I had a great job and was making new friends. April 20, 2017, I heard the ‘C’ word, and it wasn’t about someone else; it was about me. Anyone who knows me knows that I can be quite the emotional Cinderella girl and yet when I heard that word, I felt nothing. What I did know is that I wanted that ‘alien’ out of me as soon as possible. Between April of 2017 and December, I had six surgeries, and I learned a new word: ‘Metastatic’ breast cancer, Stage 4. My limited knowledge came from Google – by the way, a bad idea. I figured I should get things in order because everything spoke of ‘limited life expectancy’. Was I going to die soon? What I really needed was a sisterhood of women who understood my fears, my daily physical challenges and women who could offer hope. Along came You Night. Between my husband, who understood what I needed, and Lisa who listened to me and knew what I needed, neither would take NO for an answer. I agreed to join; I’m so glad you two persisted. Prior to cancer, I had experienced life-changing experiences: the unexpected passing of my first husband. One day your life is headed in one direction, and the next it is difficult to even find the familiar. God is faithful through the fears, tears, and the unfamiliar. He shows up in very personal ways. The night of my husband’s death I asked God, “What is it that you know about me that I don’t know about myself that you think I can do this?” His answer, “My beloved, it’s not what I know about you; it’s what you don’t know about Me - that I can carry you through this.” His answer changed me in ways that I would need to draw on to live this life of Hope and Joy even with cancer. Yes, life has changed. I live for those times when I realize that for a little while I did not even think of cancer, and I cherish those in my life who stayed and will stay because it is not always so easy. Love to Jesse who has my back no matter what. ‘C’ gives new meaning to for better or worse. To Dr. Ordoyne and Dr. Trahan: you offered hope, love, and reassurance at a time when we did not know where to turn. Love to my Mom who taught me about God’s Love and my Daddy who is my hero and challenges me by example to NEVER GIVE UP. It is my Lord and Savior who causes me to get up every morning and choose to live. He has been Faithful. Never giving up.
Christine Waller Ten years ago, in May 2009, I was diagnosed with stage 2B invasive ductal carcinoma, aka breast cancer. As the Fresh Prince of Bel-Air eloquently put it, “My life got flipped-turned upside down!” Just weeks before I was your average 32-year-old mommy of a soon to be four-year-old daughter and a one-year old baby boy and married to a very busy restaurant manager. I did not smoke, I was not on long-term birth control, I was thin, I breast fed my babies and had no family history of breast cancer. Then one evening I felt something in the shower and the next thing I know I am a cancer patient. I went from having playdates to doctor visits after doctor visits, from girls’ weekends to chemo days, from running after my kids to sleeping 18 hours a day. I was blessed with my team of doctors; Dr. David Hanson my oncologist, Dr. Michael Hailey my breast surgeon, Dr. Greg Henkelmann my radiation oncologist and Dr. Anthony Stephens my plastic surgeon. I endured six months of chemotherapy, a bilateral mastectomy, six weeks of radiation, breast reconstruction, a year of Herceptin, a hysterectomy and still to this day, I take medication daily. This journey has not been an easy one, but I am grateful to have been on it. I would never wish cancer on anyone, but cancer made me a better wife, mother, daughter and friend. I learned so many things about myself I never knew. I never realized how strong I was. My friends and family stepped up in so many ways; I could never repay them. My faith was tested, and I threw up my hands and said, “I trust you Lord, this is Your plan, I am just along for the ride.” He never left my side and instead of crying why me, I prayed for the strength to get through those hard days. I thank Him everyday for healing me and giving me the opportunity to watch my children grow. It has been ten years and I have had my highs and lows. I have come so far but as You Night has reminded me, I still have a long way to go. There is always room to be a better person, a stronger person, a more confident person, a happier person. I want to show my sisters who are just starting their cancer journey that there is light at the end of tunnel, and this too shall pass. You Night has given me the opportunity to meet these amazing women and get to know them and learn from them. We each have something to give and we will forever be bonded by sisterhood.
Gail Keller On November 2, 2018, my life as I knew it changed. I was told I had cancer. The crazy thing is I had no idea. This is my story. In October 2018, I went to North Oaks Walk-In clinic for a sinus infection. While there I asked Dr. Foster to refer me to a gastroenterologist for a routine colonoscopy. I mentioned I had been having pain under my ribs that felt like gall bladder pains, but since I didn’t have a gall bladder I knew it wasn’t that. He referred me to Dr. Reina, and he performed a colonoscopy and endoscopy. The results were that the colonoscopy was fine, and the endoscopy showed an ulcer that he would treat with medication. I went in for the follow-up appointment. Dr. Reina said he would never have thought it possible that the biopsy of the ulcer would come back positive for stomach cancer. I never heard a word he said after the word, 'CANCER'. I sat there trying to understand what he just said. I then stopped him and asked if I could call my husband David. He stepped out and I called David. I just said, "I have cancer". Of course, you can imagine what this did to him. While I was sitting there by myself, I went through a million questions: Why me? Am I going to die? I got angry; then a light went off, and I realized, hey you are being put on a path by God? This is His plan for you. Then, I prayed to God? God, I understand this is the journey You have planned for me to travel. I put all my trust in You to see me through it, but please give me the strength and peace to get through whatever You put before me. After this prayer, an inner peace came over me. It has been with me ever since. David and I asked what the next step would be. He referred me to Dr. Oubre, my oncologist. His plan was for four rounds of chemo (FLOT-5), surgery, and four more rounds of chemo after surgery. Dr. Oubre referred me to Dr. Bolton who had the cancer staged. It was stage 2-3. Dr. Oubre said I ws lucky because most stomach cancer isn't found until it has already become stage 4. When I went to Tennessee for Thanksgiving, I told my parents. In December I started treatments, so I wasn't able to get home during Chrismas. Dad was diagnosed with colon cancer and had to have a foot and a half of his colon removed. Mom passed away in January 2019. I had surgery in February, and they removed two thirds of my stomach and seven of the 21 lymph nodes tested positive for cancer. Eight weeks laster the last four treatments of chemo were done. In May after my las treatment I was let go from my job. My first Cat Scan after treatmenst: CANCER FREE!!! The week after my good new, I got a call that my dad was not doing well. I was able to see him and tell him my good news. He was happy! He passed away on Father's Day. There have been a lot of obstacles thrown my way, but I truly believe faith will get you through anything. am so proud to be a part of the You Night Sisterhood for the 'I Get It' support!
Lexie Wildey My journey with breast cancer didn’t begin with breast cancer .... my story is a bit unique since I was already suffering with chronic illness when I found the mass in my breast. In December 2010, I woke up with terrible joint pain in my hands and arms. I felt completely exhausted and felt terrible! I work at a hospital so I could have caught something. A month later, I woke up feeling the same way. I had several blood tests run. The only test that returned was Lyme Disease, however, my actual diagnosis of Lyme disease came three years later. The symptoms became increasingly worse, and new symptoms emerged. Once diagnosed, I did six months of oral antibiotics which made me very ill while working full time. I changed physicians, and we decided to start IV antibiotics to attack the disease more aggressively with the placement of a Port-a-Cath. The next six months of IV treatments were grueling -- including home health care and twice daily infusions of antibiotics, putting a halt to all things that I loved in life -- my job, my horses, and my social life. The treatment was like chemo and was physically and mentally draining. I resigned from my job as an Ultrasound Technician from Lakeview Regional Medical Center. I stopped IV treatments and resumed oral antibiotics. Slowly, I began to see a light at the end of the tunnel, and I began to feel like myself. Right after my 35th birthday, we were celebrating Father’s Day. Since I lost my grandmother to metastatic breast cancer, I did monthly self-breast exams faithfully. Little did I know they would save my life! That night, I found a tiny mass in my right breast! Because of my profession, I knew the signs of breast masses: it was solid; didn’t hurt; and didn’t move -- all ‘text book’ signs for breast cancer. I went to Lakeview for my imaging. Due to the density of the breast tissue, the mass was not seen on the mammogram. I had an ultrasound performed by my friend, Gina Deakle. When she placed the probe down on the arc of the mass, we both knew that a biopsy was next. That following week, another ‘family member’, our radiologist, Dr. Steve Pflug, performed my biopsy. Just a few days later, I received the phone call from a friendly voice and personal friend, our pathologist, Dr. Pam Bartholomew, to confirm what we all suspected. It was Invasive Ductal Carcinoma. I started on my homework to decide which doctors I would choose. God played a huge roll in all of this because they fell into place perfectly. After speaking to Dr. Sedaghi’s (then) office manager, Sedette, she guided me on what I had to do – she, too, had been down this dreadful road. Accompanying Dr. Sedaghi in reconstruction, would be Dr. John Colfry who would be doing the mastectomy at the same time. Both doctor’s offices were so compassionate and kind to me and my family -- which meant the world to me. September 5, 2018 was the big day. I was so anxious yet so ready to get this cancer out of my body! It was a very long and rough surgery, but I made it through it! After three oncology consultations, Dr. David Oubre, myself and my family were on the same page. He considered my unique situation with Lyme Disease, and we decided that I would not have chemo since there was no lymph node involvement. Instead, we would begin with Tamoxifen daily and three-month follow-up labs. Being introduced to You Night by (again) a former Lakeview employee and friend was one of the greatest things that happened to me throughout this part of my journey. It’s been an amazing experience that has blessed all of us ladies with great friendships and bonding like none other! Throughout all the pain and sickness, one thing has remained steady and true: “I can do all things through Christ that strengthens me.” Philippians 4:13 Thank you will never be enough to say to all my loved ones. I don’t know how I would have made it without you and your unwavering support!
Mindy Lane Have you ever been truly grateful? I thought I was until I almost lost it all. Although I had everything I could ever want, I was living life stressed and forgot to look for all of the blessings. In 2016, I knew something was wrong. I was 36 years old and remember thinking, "This can't be what getting older feels like." I didn't feel right and went to three different doctors who wanted to put me on antidepressants. In 2017, I asked God for a sign. Not long after, I tripped over my son and hit my right breast. It turned black and blue and had a very noticeable lump. I went to my doctor two months later after the lump did not go away and was immediately sent for a mammogram. I was then sent for a 3D mammogram and had a biopsy on the same day. I had Invasive Ductal Carcinoma. It was surreal. I couldn't believe it. I couldn't believe I had cancer. I thought I was just given a death sentence. How could I tell my children? I couldn't and I didn't. I didn't really tell anybody. I did have my tribe though who was there with me relentlessly at every waking moment. It brought us all closer together in our relationship with each other and God. I found my faith again which brought out the peace I desperately needed to get through this. With cancer, there is a lot of waiting and you have to make some of the most difficult decisions in your life, and you have to make them quickly! I found some of the best doctors in the world: Dr. Ordoyne, Dr. Sullivan, and Dr. Saux. They were there to guide me to make these difficult decisions, and their words and confidence made me feel calm in what I felt was a hurricane. Through all the testing, I found out I had hormone positive stage 1 breast cancer. I had four surgeries, and the tumor came back with a high recurrence rate, so chemo was next. My family and closest friends cooked for me, gave me gift cards to buy healthy food, cleaned my house and provided endless emotional support. My husband was there for me every day to tell me I will be okay and come out of this. He wiped my tears and cold capped me at my infusions, so I didn't lose my hair; he was truly my rock. My brother came to all my doctor’s appointments, helped my husband cold cap me, and came to the North Shore every weekend to keep me busy. My mom and dad were there for me so fiercely that I will never in this lifetime be able to express enough gratitude to them for the love they have shown to me. I will be forever grateful to all of them for going through this with me. I am so grateful to be alive, to be here for my children and family that I do not take anything for granted. I love fiercely, don't get mad or stressed like I used to, and forgive easily. Living life after cancer is difficult. The medications cause pain, weight gain, and I feel like I don't know what side is up some days. But I will keep fighting every day to get back to ‘normal’. I refuse to give up. I am so happy to have found the You Night Sisterhood. We get each other in a way no one can understand. We are all here fighting for our lives in one way or another and have each other to get through it all together.
Missie Noel I’ve always been a writer. I’ve kept diaries since I was a child, wrote for various school newspapers and created journals for each of my children, listing achievements as varied as their first lost tooth, school dances, report cards and Eagle Scout awards. The day I found out I had cancer, my first instinct was to pull out a new notebook and start jotting down every terrifying detail and suggestion, all the while thinking, “Well, at least this is going to make a great story!” I began keeping lists everywhere; what to take if this happens, what to do when something doesn’t happen, who to call, who never to call, eat this, drink that...but I wouldn’t let myself REALLY write, doing so would open me up to an over-analysis of myself , and I was not ready for that! After all, I’m the ‘fun girl’, the organizer, the cheerleader, and the ‘I can fix anything’ go-to gal. Suddenly, I’m the one in trouble. Would I even be able to confide in others, much less write about it? Like most who have been diagnosed with cancer, I was in a constant state of expectational dread. After my first surgery in October of 2018, I still had not ‘announced’ my cancer, but I knew I needed to find resources. I needed an additional ‘tribe’ of confidants who were also dealing with cancer - experienced, knowledgeable, and with a positive outlook. I found them in “You Night”! After covering this event in my ‘Tammany Scene’ page in The St. Tammany Farmer/The Advocate for the last few years, I knew how close each class would become, supporting each other and maintaining their friendships for years. After joining the 2019 class, we began our ‘getting to know you’ events together just as I began my chemotherapy. My husband Jim remains my rock and kiddos Annie and Sean keep me on my toes. I’m blessed with wonderful friends. I don’t have time to cry! Because of my special You Night classmates, I’ve regained my balance and my #FEARLESS mantra. Our class became close rather quickly. Our personalities are as varied as our cancers. We have shared surgery stories, fears for the future, treatment options, wigs, and the emotional roller coaster of new drug trials and denials of coverage. We are unique, yet we are stronger together. My ‘Positive Polly’ and ‘Negative Nelly’ Facebook posts are heartfelt and real. This journey is my new story, and I WILL choose to write it. I will decide each chapter and how this book will end. Cancer cannot steal my spirit and it will not steal my joy. I got this.
Christina Bodenheimer I was always very active, into eating right and exercising. In fact, October of 2017, I was starting my third round of P90X. I was going for my best record with increased reps and eating clean. One day after a great workout, I was unusually tired, but figured it was from pushing myself. I went to shower, and as I passed the soap above my left breast, something caught my attention. It was a lump that I could feel below the skin. I was concerned for a moment, and then thought maybe I had done too many pushups. Otherwise, surely it was just a cyst. I had an appointment to see my gynecologist, who immediately sent me over to Dr. Lagarde. I was scanned and had a needle biopsy. The tests and PET scan came back as cancer, Stage 2 Triple negative infiltrating carcinoma and it had spread to some nodes. The mammogram I had just three months earlier did not catch it due to my dense breast tissue. It was surely a bad dream. I had only begun to live, and now my future was uncertain. Fear and questions flooded my mind, and I could not speak. The next year and a half was a blur. I was blessed with Dr. Carinder, who treated me and kept me focused, and my wonderful family, especially Raymond, my brother, and his wife Christy, who helped me through all my chemo sessions. My sweet friend, Eric, and some unexpected friends found time to check on me and make me laugh. They ALL were my angels. During one of my chemo sessions, a beautiful lady, Rhonda Ebel, spoke to me about programs, including You Night. Once I was strong enough, I met with the sisterhood and they completely inspired me. I kept working throughout, only taking off for chemo or surgery. I had a bilateral mastectomy with expanders inserted to hold a place while I had radiation. Radiation was hard because it left evidence of destruction and made the expanders painful afterwards. After a long wait, the reconstruction was done by Dr. Celentano. The aftermath of cancer treatment and surgery can be devastating. The things about life and the way you see things change. You reevaluate every decision in your life, and then you find a way to fight and come back better. You see the light and love in everyone and everything. I am thankful for all the good that has come out of me because of it and the beautiful people I would never have met and grown to love. I have surrendered myself to God completely. He has given me a strength to fight for life, so I can help others to do the same.
Christine Morris All I asked my OBGYN for was bio-identical hormone replacement. Crazy mood swings, hot flashes, snippy responses in casual conversations, and night sweats all had to stop. I had been good about keeping my mammogram appointments and once done, I could pursue hormone replacement. Four hours after the mammogram, my gynecologist called me back for a magnification scan. I thought, ugh, I must have moved causing a glitch in the scan. I took another scan, and after what seemed like hours, the doctor pointed out the area of concern. A biopsy was done the next morning. Early that afternoon, I returned for the results. Feeling uneasy at this point, I didn’t want to go alone. I called my husband Michael and he left work early. After introductions and small talk, Dr. Day gave us the news. I had cancer. That was all I heard. I went numb and couldn’t think. There was no way I would have remembered anything she said that afternoon if my husband hadn’t gone with me. Next….all the doctor visits, consultations, information, and decision making had to begin. In short, I had options, but almost every option ended with, “when the cancer returns we’ll be able to catch it early.” Now, it was time to tell our sons and family. This was harder than I thought. David, the oldest, said “Mom I know you will make the right choice for yourself. Any decision you make, I will be here for you.” Nicholas, our middle son, said, “Just cut them off! Get rid of any chance of it coming back!” Taylor, the youngest, said “Mom, how do you feel? What are your thoughts? I know you will be fine.” It was also hard to tell my mom. She had breast cancer 5 years ago. When I told her she said, “Oh no, I am so sorry.” I told her, if she could beat it I could too. I made my decision: I had a double mastectomy/reconstructive surgery on February 8th. Dr. Celeste Legarde and Dr. M’Liss Hogan were professional and caring. They answered and catered to any question or concern I had. I could not have had better care from anyone else. 2018 was a life changing year, mentally and physically. I had four surgeries: bilateral mastectomy/reconstructive, full hysterectomy, and 2 additional reconstructive. I feel fortunate to not have had radiation or chemotherapy. My husband’s support in all of this was tremendous. I don’t know how I could have handled any of it without him, my family, and my friends. 2019 has begun my journey as to who I am after my cancer diagnosis and I am thankful for the part You Night has played in that process.
Becky Kruse In 2014, I began a yearlong journey of trying to treat some unusual and bothersome symptoms. At first, it was just a few cysts on my neck that were impinging on my nerves, but then I found myself suffering from some other scary ailments: anemia, low vitamin D levels, anxiety, depression, sudden weight loss, constant itching and night sweats. Then another, much larger lump appeared on my neck. General Surgeon Dr. Callioute’s bloodwork and biopsies confirmed my diagnosis: I had Stage IV B Hodgkin’s Lymphoma…at just 39 years old! So many things flooded my mind in that moment. I did not want to die. I met with Oncologist Dr. James Carinder at Mary Bird Perkins. His bed side manner was impeccable. After a painful bone marrow biopsy, I was immediately admitted to St. Tammany Parish Hospital for an 8-hour blood transfusion as my hemoglobin was low. I could barely walk due to the pain and I was just exhausted. But Dr. Carinder told me this was 95% curable and if I was going to have cancer this was the good one to have. I couldn’t wrap my head around “the good cancer.” No cancer is good. I remember my first day of chemo; the entire staff at Mary Bird Perkins was so encouraging. My chemo nurse Grant explained everything he was doing step by step. Losing my hair was one of the most difficult things I experienced, so my sweet oncology nurse Lisa Nathaniel shaved my head for me. The one thing that I thought defined me as a woman, didn’t. I felt liberated when I looked in the mirror at my bald head. The physical side effects of my treatment were brutal, but my illness also took a heavy toll on my friends and family. I will always be thankful to my husband Clay and my precious children, and also my parents and their church family who constantly motivated me to fight this fight. Through all my hardships there is one thing that is always constant and that is God. My favorite Bible Verse is "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." - Jeremiah 29:11. It took 2 long years, but I finally heard the words, "You are cancer free! But even then, my life after cancer was still filled with anxiety and fear. I became homebound and could not even do the simplest tasks. I went from being the life of the party to never going to a party. All of this changed for me when Kristen Gonzales told me about You Night. I finally decided to "trust the process" and make the best decision I could have ever made: to become a Role Model for the St. Tammany Class of 2019. I am forever grateful to Lisa McKenzie, the Fab Four and to all my You Night Sisters who have shown me how to live again. It's time to Turn the Beat Around!
Rebecca Mitchell As a teacher, summers were the time for my annual medical check-ups. And since my maternal grandmother and aunt had breast cancer, I’d been having mammograms faithfully since I was 38. So, I had my July mammogram, but this time I got called back the next day for a second scan, where I was told I needed a breast biopsy. Dr. Natalie Fitton, my radiologist, explained that the biopsy confirmed DCIS in my left breast and I was going to need to see oncology surgeon Dr. Celeste Lagarde, for a biopsy of 2 suspicious areas. I trusted her from the moment I met her and remained positive, composed, calm, and strong. I knew immediately the way I handled this was going to be with grace and strength from within. My motto was to get more from this cancer than I would ever let it take from me! After my biopsies, Dr. Lagarde sent me to The Center for Restorative Breast Surgery. During my first meeting with the phenomenal specialists Drs. Ordoyne and Trahan, I embraced their words of wisdom and began my journey of compete trust in everything they presented. I was treated like a whole person. This team spent endless hours with me and my family turning despair into hope. I was confident and focused and after all the consultations and rounds of tests were reported to me, I knew I had to have a bilateral mastectomy. Before my bilateral mastectomy, the entire staff radiated a sense of tranquility and peace toward me. The tone of their voices in our conversations were sincere and gave me a feeling of peace about my decision. The surgery was a success, and the post-surgical pathology reports proved that I had chosen the right path. It would only have been a matter of time before I would have ended up with a more severe / advanced stage of breast cancer. Breast cancer is an emotional cancer. A woman’s body is her IDENTITY; it is the HOME for her soul, it is the EDGE for her beauty, and the WHOLENESS of her existence. I have a sincere appreciation for my health, my life, my family, and my friends beyond measure. Thank you to my Dear Forever husband Greg, for always being by my side, and to my two daughters, Paige and Jessica, who are stronger and are forever changed because of this as well. My loving family and friends, many of whom are here tonight celebrating with me, were unbelievable with all the prayers, love, and support! You Night came along and snatched me up unexpectedly. I have always wanted a sister and now, I have 23 beautiful, amazing sisters! This entire experience brings compassion, light, energy, and hope to each woman it touches. These women are as real as it gets. They endured challenges beyond belief, personally, emotionally, and medically. They are generous, humble, and true role models for our community. We stand stronger together as a sisterhood wearing our scars as added layers of strength that truly sets us aside from the darkness of being broken. This runway idea petrifies me, but as Lisa says, in order to grow a little, you must step out of your comfort zone. So here we go!!
Stephanie Mize My husband and I had only enjoyed 4 years of retirement on a small farm in Alabama and we loved it. But after my husband passed away from a tragic accident in 2017, I moved to Covington to be closer to my son, daughter in-law and grandsons, hoping to heal my pain. Well life does not go according to our plans sometimes. I made my annual physical and mammogram appointment in 2018 as I had always had each year. In the past I’ve had two abnormal mammograms which led to ultrasounds and biopsies but nothing serious showed up. So, when I was called back and told I needed a biopsy, I wasn’t concerned. I went in and had the biopsy procedure the following week. I remember telling the Radiologist performing the procedure that it was probably nothing. He looked me in the eye and said, “I think it’s cancer.” Oops the “C” word! I went into a state of shock. I was told my doctor would call me when the test results were back. As I was leaving the parking lot, I received a call from the Radiology Department asking me if I was still in the building. She asked me if I could come back in because the Radiologist wanted to do another biopsy on my lymph nodes. Now I was numb. A couple of days later the call I had dreaded came from my doctor. I was diagnosed with Invasive Ductal Carcinoma, Stage II. Being a typical type “A” personality, I pulled myself together quickly. Having just recently moved to Louisiana, I had no idea what to do next. The kind office manager in Radiology directed me to the appointments I would need. I started chemo in February followed by 3 surgeries, radiation and I’m now on Herceptin and Perjecta until November of this year. I have learned so much since my journey started. I make every day count because it’s a blessing! My family kept me motivated and wouldn’t let me feel sorry for myself, which I appreciated more than they will ever know. My sister came and stayed with me and cared for me when I couldn’t take care of myself. I will be forever thankful to God, family, friends, Doctor’s Saux, Ordoyn, Sullivan and their team of nurses and assistants. Lastly, the love and support of the You Night program, Lisa McKenzie, the Fab 4 and volunteers that put the St. Tammany Class of 2019 program together and definitely took me out of my comfort zone. My sisters of You Night have given me back what I thought I had lost forever: my fight and strength for which I will be forever grateful.
Sharon Hartzog I was 59 years old and enjoying life to the fullest. I have taken care of myself all of my adult years. I exercised, ate healthy, competed in about 15 different local bodybuilding shows, loved to fish and hunt, and prepared fresh food that God gave us here on this earth. I enjoy the time spent with my husband, four children, six granddaughters and my best friends. Visions of my life changed the day I was told I had Stage 2 Rectal cancer and a nodule in my lung that could be cancer. I was in disbelief, denial! Not me! I have worked so hard on this body to keep it healthy. I cannot put into words how I felt. My main thought was that I was going to die. My world stopped spinning. The next two days I had another colonoscopy, a CT scan and a MRI. Still numb and speechless. I could not talk to anybody. I went to the doctor for my reports and she told my story exactly as it was going to happen; straight forward and horrifying! I tried to swallow every tear. Chemo, radiation, surgery, and a colostomy bag possibly for the rest of my life. I just could not talk about it. I finally realized that I wasn’t going to die the next day, but waiting for the doctors to come up with a plan made me feel like the cancer was going spread all over my body before they could get to it. PATIENCE!...How in the world does anyone think you can have patience when you have cancer? I met with my radiologist and pulmonologist. The biopsy of the nodule in my lung was scar tissue, and I was told to keep an eye on it in the future. When I met my oncologist, Dr. Jack Saux, my outlook on life got better. He gave me that positive attitude, and I have kept it throughout the treatment. I started off with chemo pills and radiation for 6 weeks. I then healed for 8 weeks and prepared for surgery and an ileostomy bag. The last words I remember before I went under was….If you wake up, and the bag is on your right side, it means the bag is temporary. If you wake up and it is on your left side it means you have a permanent ileostomy bag for the rest of your life. I had mixed feelings that day, but I was alive and that was more than I was expecting, so having a bag for life was not going to stop me from living. A stoma is when the small intestines are cut into and brought to the outside of the body for function visibility and care. I was unprepared for that picture coming to life. But I did it. Two months passed, and I prepared for reversal surgery. It was successful. Four weeks passed, and I began four months of chemo. From this point, I had to bring home a bag of chemo which pumped for 48 hours. That was tough, but again I was positive. I finished my chemo March, 2019 and I am cancer free at the moment. My body will never be the same, but I am thankful to still be alive and enjoying life. I have been blessed and am thankful to God. No matter how hard your life is, somebody always has it worse!
Heidi Rhea I have four generations of family members with cancer and more than half have died of it. My father was 41 when he passed of colon cancer. His mother died of cancer and his 7 siblings had it. Half of my cousins have had cancer and half of those have died. I always felt that I would get the Garringer “cancer curse” and in June 2011, my fear was realized when I was diagnosed with Cholangiocarcinoma. Cholango-what??? I couldn’t even say it, much less have an idea of what or where it even was. I immediately broke into tears just hearing the word cancer and knowing how many of my family members have died from cancer. This was my first-time seeing Dr. Schiro and I didn’t realize it at the time, but I was blessed to have her diagnose me in just 24 hours, because it is so often misdiagnosed[HR1] . She is also the first doctor that suggested seeing a geneticist because of my strong family cancer history. I also found out that I have Lynch Syndrome, an inherited gene in families with a lot of colon cancer, that predisposes you to get many cancers at a much higher risk. I have about an 80% chance of getting colon cancer. That too, is frightening, but at least I know and can be proactive with yearly tests, like a colonoscopy. When I got home after being diagnosed, I googled Cholangiocarcinoma and was devastated to read the grim survival statistics. Cholangiocarcinoma, also called Bile-Duct Cancer, begins in the bile duct, a duct which carries bile and digestive fluid through the liver. It is a rare, aggressive cancer, that is hard-to-diagnose, hard-to-treat, and has a very high fatality rate. Half die the first year, often because they were diagnosed too late and only 5-8% live over 5 years. My surgery was a difficult and dangerous one and I got a doctor experienced with my cancer in St. Louis, who removed ¾ of my liver and gallbladder. I had eight months of chemo and 30 radiation treatments. The chemo kicked my butt and I didn’t feel like doing anything but sleep for months. But am doing wonderful now, since I found some natural supplements that helped with digestive issues after surgery and given me energy. I retired from teaching 1 ½ years after diagnosis, when our daughter added triplets to her family and had five under five! Love being with my 11 grandchildren! They keep me going. I am blessed and grateful to still be alive and I try to live each day to the fullest. As a long-time survivor, I am now focusing on raising awareness and funds for my many Cholangiocarcinoma warriors! [HR1]
Agnes Freeman My story began in September 2010, just a normal day doing normal things and enjoying life. That evening while bathing I felt a lump in my left breast. At first I was startled, but didn’t think much after that because I had just had a mammogram. I just figured I had hit myself playing with the grandkids. Two weeks later, the lump was still there and quite sore, so I called the OB/GYN and scheduled an appointment. Naturally you wait weeks for an appointment. The doctor examined me and stated it was probably nothing because at my age, breasts can change but he scheduled a mammogram to take a look. Well the mammogram did not show anything and he wanted to just watch it for 6 months. I wasn’t having it. I wanted the lump gone. He sent me to a surgeon for another examination and he also said the same thing and wanted to watch it. No… I still wasn’t having it. So, he ordered an ultrasound and again it showed nothing. He then performed a needle biopsy in the office and I had to wait another two weeks for results. It was November and I was still waiting. Two weeks later I went for the follow-up appointment alone, expecting another “it’s nothing” diagnosis. But the look on the doctor’s face said it all. When he spoke the words CANCER I heard nothing else. Somehow, I drove myself home, a total wreck, and my husband was there. When I saw him, I just fell apart. The first thing he said was we needed a prayer chain started and a call was made to our pastor. Surgery was scheduled for the next week, but since my husband was self-employed, insurance was limited and the hospital wanted a ton of money upfront. I searched for a hospital and was directed to Leonard Chabert Hospital in Houma, Louisiana. Luckily, they fit me in right away with Dr. Mackey, the surgeon who taught there. She scheduled my surgery two days later and I was not a candidate for a lumpectomy but needed a radical mastectomy. Six weeks after the surgery, I had 11 weeks of chemo. My children, stepchildren and my husband walked right beside me through the highs, lows, and the in between. I am here today nine years later because of first God Almighty and my persistence to not wait and see. I am enjoying life and God always is present in the midst of the storm. He showed me the positive in any situation. I always appreciate the little things because they turn into the big ones.
Kim Rogers My story really begins with the story of my daughter, Melanie. She had triple positive breast cancer at the age of 22. Five years later she finished her Tamoxifen and was cleared to resume life. Within two months, it was discovered that her cancer returned in her liver. She completed another round of chemo and will be on Herceptin and Prejetta indefinitely. A couple of months later, my routine mammogram revealed that a painful cyst that I had for over a year had developed a solid component. To my great surprise, it turned out to be malignant. Well, I have been a RN for 33 years and took care of my daughter through her nightmare. Now, it was my turn to go through my own nightmare with her as my nurse. She has been a great support and I now understand her struggles first hand. Back up to 6 years ago. I found a tiny ad for You Night in a Mary Bird magazine and called to get Melanie in. I knew that she needed the support more than she knew was possible. She was added to the first class. It was truly the best thing that I could have ever done for her. Now in full circle she sent in a request for me to be in You Night. So, here I am in the best program imaginable, navigating through life as a cancer survivor with a new group of sisters relying on God for my strength. The greatest thing that God has taught me through my cancer experience is to live for today. That was the only way I could get through chemo and radiation. I absolutely could not think of all the treatment that I had ahead of me. So, a very wise You Night sister told me to rejoice in the day. Focus on getting well every day and do not think about tomorrow or the next round. I have been managing to do this ever since, in life especially, when my day is insane. When I'm pushed to the edge, I can enjoy the very next moment when the chaos settles down. My most favorite thing in the world is spending time with my children, grandchildren, friends and family. Now, when I'm with my loved ones, I love and feel more deeply than ever before. Every get together, or picture texted to me or face time becomes the next most special memory and joy ever! Sometimes, I get blindsided but I catch my breath and regain a total peace about every bad thing that comes my way because I know that God has my back. I guess that I had to get broken to be fully restored. ‘Maybe It’s OK’ by We Are Messengers is my new theme song: Maybe it’s OK if I’m not OK ‘Cause the One who holds the world is holding onto me Maybe it’s all right if I’m not all right ‘Cause the One who holds the stars is holding my whole life
We honor these sisters who lost their battles to cancer this year.
Mary Perl My story began back in the fall of 2008 when I went for my routine annual mammogram check-up back in Mobile, Alabama. I didn’t think anything about it since I had been doing this for many years with the same old results – nothing. But this time, it was different. As the exam was proceeding, I glanced over to the x-ray monitor and saw there was a dark spot on the screen. Once the exam was over, I was told to make an appointment with my gynecologist to get the results. During that appointment, my doctor confirmed there was a lump, and I needed to have a biopsy. He gave me a name of a surgeon. The biopsy confirmed my fears - CANCER. Then the whirlwind began. My doctor gave me the name of an oncologist and radiologist. I began meeting with all these doctors to plan the best course for my treatment. It was determined I was to have a lumpectomy and once I healed from that surgery, I was to do chemo followed by radiation. I was apprehensive about starting chemo since I had heard so many horror stories about how it made you feel. But after my first treatment, I felt great! I had all this energy and hadn’t felt this good for a long time. I thought “WOW”, this is going to be a piece of cake! WRONG. After the second treatment, it was like everyone said. Feeling really weak and sickly and then my hair started falling out. By the time I started feeling good again, it was time for another treatment. But I was lucky because I had a great support group with my family, my church family and friends. They were always giving me words of encouragement. I knew they had my back. I have been cancer free now for eight years and thank God for every day He has given me to be with my family, especially spending time with my grandkids. I still have semiannual check-ups with my oncologist and must take medication for a ten year period. But now when I go for my annual mammogram, I have a deeper appreciation for what they do on a daily basis. They really do save lives! To those who are just beginning this journey, know you are not alone. A quote that I kept close to me while going through this experience was, “If God brought you to it, He will see you through it.” He did for me and He will for you too.
is a cherished tradition that each class participates in, where the participants have honest and open sharing about all that they have been through because of cancer.
Lesa Raia You Night St. Tammany Class of 2017
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Please continue to promote early detection and to fight for and pray for a cure. A memorial for all fallen You Night sisters is located in the venue.
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We will not forget their friendships or their fight.
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SAVE THE DATES FOR THESE UPCOMING YOU NIGHT EVENTS -- more information can be found on our website: www.younightevents.com/events Tuesday, Dec. 17th: You Night Fan Night at the Pelicans v. Nets game January 30th: Leadership Development Conference, Solomon Episcopal Center January 31st - Feb 2nd: Annual Retreat, Solomon Episcopal Center Saturday, March 28th: Battle of the Models, Slidell Municipal Auditorium Saturday, July 25th: You Night New Orleans at The Filmore Thursday, October 22nd : You Night St Tammany, Castine Center
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I was skeptical. I thought, "How is dressing up in fancy clothes, and practicing walking and making silly videos going to help ME?" I was so miserable that I couldn't see a possible way to feel better. I hated myself and everyone around me. A member of You Night called me one day and asked me to just show up and trust her. The last thing i wanted to do was be around a bunch of people I didn't know. It took me several meetings and practices to start to trust. A few people attempted to break down my ice queen wall and for that I am thankful. Little by little I could feel myself forming bonds with the other ladies. These are friends I would have never met if I wouldn't have had cancer. These ladies helped me see the positive of our situations. I will forever more have a lasting bond with them. Lately, I have been told by several friends and coworkers that they can see a change in me. They can see a sparkle that hasn't been there in a while. I have to attribute that to my You Night sisters. I was wrong about not needing this organization. I needed to be around people that just "got it." Watching everyone be sassy and confident has done wonders for my aching soul. So thank you, You Night, for calling me just one more time. I needed this more than I knew. Angela Palmisano, St Tammany 2017
You Night- St. Tammany was an absolute joy to attend. I was there to support a participant and I'm almost certain by the end of her first walk, my throat was bleeding from the insane amount of screaming I did in such a short amount of time. This night brought back such raw emotion for me. In 2009, my mother was diagnosed with Stage IV metastatic breast cancer, a diagnosis that only occurs around 5% of the time. A few months later, she ended her fight with breast cancer, three days after my high school graduation. My mom could not yell or scream when my name was called while she sat on the side, but I remember locking eyes with her as I walked back to my seat and knowing that I needed to cherish that time with her. In December, I graduate from Southeastern with my Bachelors in Accounting, and I know she will once again be on the side, watching me walk across the stage. I just won't be able to lock eyes with her this time. Seeing the difference You Night has made in these women's lives has truly lit a spark in me that I can't seem to put out. All in all, what I am trying to say is, that I need to get involved with this organization somehow, someway. This is not an "I want," this is an "I need to." This organization changed the life of so many women in what took months, it changed mine in a matter of minutes as a spectator. With that being said, how can I help? If you only need assistance with stuffing envelopes, I will do it. Guest,, You Night St Tammany 2017
PICTURED: A precious family moment at You Night New Orleans 2017! Photo by Tracie Morris Schaefer.
Little did we know we were signing up for something that would change our lives forever! March 24, 2015 was one of the most magical nights of my life along with my wedding day and a few other special events :) Because of this event I now have a group of new friends I didn't know I needed. Friends united because we have all gone through Cancer and know what the other means by simply saying terms like Chemo Brain, Taxol, night sweats and Tamoxifen. And I have countless other new friends because of You Night and the mission to empower cancer survivors. The list of people involved in getting this event to happen is long and you are all wonderful! I will encourage everyone I know to attend future events! What a fabulous night! -- Kristyn Kemp, NOLA CLASS OF 2015
I feel so blessed and lucky to have been a part of You Night. It was totally empowering. I learned so much about holding my head high, and my shoulders back, and presenting myself in the best way possible. I gained so many new, wonderful friends, and formed bonds with women sharing a similar journey. -- Melinda Breaux, ST TAMMANY CLASS OF 2013
White Donut Productions The team at White Donut Productions has been capturing all of the beautiful images our guests and participants have enjoyed since the founding of You Night, including the fun video shoots, complete runway shows and still imagery. Dylan's work has been featured in National Geographic Magazine, as well as countless other print and graphic mediums.
There is a drive inside of Tracie to grab moments. Tracie says, "There is nothing like the satisfaction when I succeed and capture something visually or emotionally moving. I feel it and my client’s feel it." Tracie helps make the posing part of the program fun, truly capturing each participants unique personalities, while also diving into the areas where ladies feel self-conscious. It is beautiful to watch our participants become butterflies, as they learn to not be hard on themselves.
Tuesday, Dec. 17th Tickets available on the You Night Website www.you.nightevents.com/events The ladies of the You Night Sisterhood will be walking the funway on the court before the game!
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Angela has been with the You Night Team since 2015, serving as lead for all things "logistics". Angela helps manage all tasks associated wtih restaurants, decorations, move-in, set-up, tear down, furnishings, wait staff, parking, security and so much more. Angela has been in the event production business for over 25 years.
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MEET OUR CREATIVE TEAM WHO HELPS CREATE AND CAPTURE THE EXPERIENCES PHOTOGRAPHY, VIDEOGRAPHY, RUNWAY TECHNIQUES, POSTURE, SELF-ESTEEM, & TEAM BUILDING You Night Coaches Tammy Broussard, Leslie Legania and Lauren Siegel all hail from extensive careers in modeling and runway. Tammy was part of the You Night New Orleans Class of 2015, a fashion model and a managing member of Chic Nouvelle Model Management; Leslie is founder of Positive Image Modeling, Etiquette and Charm School and is a professional runway coach in New Orleans: Lauren is a marketing manager and freelance model, often seen gracing the stage of many runway shows including SAKS 5th Avenue fashion shows. This amazing team works with our participants over several weeks teaching them the many skills required to conquer their fears of getting on and owning a runway stage. Techniques range from helping to break negative barriers of self-perception to actual runway techniques used by high-fashion models. All of the skills used on the runway stage are practiced several weeks before the show, including learning how to walk and show off the beautiful garments and accessories, how to walk on and off stage with fierce poses, how to interact with the audience and with each other, spins, half turns and group choreography. Through this program, our participants take brave steps forward to learn something new about themselves, while also having fun and developing friendships that will last a lifetime. If -- after the event -- you see a You Night model walking with their head held up high and excellent posture, you'll know where those life skills came from!
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Healing Hearts Quilt Raffle This quilt represents over 200 cancer warriors. These hearts honor those who have finished their fight and those who continue to fight this terrible disease. Each heart correlates to the color of each person's cancer awareness ribbon. All proceeds will benefit You Night Empowering Events, a cancer support group for women. Tickets are on sale now through October 25 and can be purchased by mail or in person at the 2019 You Night events in July and October. Drawing will be held on October 25. Tickets are $5.00 each, 5 for $20.00 or 30 for $100.00. Contact Susan Stewart at 985-750-5683.
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EXECUTIVE PRODUCER / FOUNDER Lisa McKenzie YOU NIGHT TEAM LEADERS Tara Huguet, Administration Becky Gilbert, Logistics Deborah Tonguis, Programs SPONSORSHIPS, DONATIONS CHAIRS Deidra Langridge Denise Gassiot Stephanie Rivers EVENT LOGISTICS AND REGISTRATION Tara Huguet, Registration Becky Gilbert, Logistics Joy Kampen Mei-Lin Roussel, Logistics Asst, Michael Holmes and the Knights PRODUCTION ASSISTANT, FOOD AND BEVERAGE MANAGER Angela Becnel Grey Spiller MODEL, SALON AND BOUTIQUE LIAISONS Kristen Gonzales Halle McKenzie OUTREACH DIRECTOR Ruth Avila Amy Shapiro Mary Jolicouer PHOTOGRAPHY & VIDEOGRAPHY: Dylan Maras and Team White Donut Productions Tracie Morris Schaefer and Carol Costanza, StudioU VIDEO CREATIVE Lisa McKenzie Dr. Joyce Varghese SOCIAL MEDIA Lisa McKenzie Tara Huguet Shannon Wilson CORRESPONDENCE Joy Kampen Mary Jolicouer KNIGHTS SUPPORT Michael Holmes, Lead plus all the Knights who support us throughout the year KNIGHTS CENTERPIECE Designed, Carved and Painted by Tony Piediscalzo PROGRAM, GRAPHIC DESIGN & PRINTING Lisa McKenzie MEDIA RELATIONS Holley Haag RUNWAY COACHES AND CHOREOGRAPHERS Leslie Legania Shelby Tammy Broussard Lauren Siegel ST TAM FAB FOUR Angela Palmisano Shelly Deynoodt Kristen Gonzales Tammy Riley Shannon Wilson Thanks to all the other big sister alums who have poured their hearts into helping with this year's class MASTERS OF CEREMONY Kenny Lopez Candice Bennatt GUEST SPEAKERS Center for Restorative Breast Surgery Dr. Williams, Center for Women's Health Dr. Jennifer Daly, St. Tammany Cancer Center Michael Holmes, Diagnositic Imaging Services, "Knight" Program Former State Representative Julie Stokes CORPORATE SPONSORSHIP Deidra Langridge Denise Gassiot Tara Huguet BACKSTAGE CREW Rhonda Beals Perez Ysonde Strecker Angela Palmisano Debbie Roma VIP EXPERIENCE Denise Gassiot Holley Haag Robin Brookter Zee Ordone Debbie Tonquis VENUE AND EVENT VENDORS Fancy Faces See-Hear Production Skyline Displays Expo Signs Freeman Decorating Castine Center Luminous Events OFFICIAL ST TAM CLASS OF 2019 STYLISTS FROM H2O (Heather Mahoney, Owner) and Air Salon & Blow Dry Bar (Gayle Lockwood-Reuling, Owner) WITH THANKS ALL THE Stylists, Receptionists, Phone Bank and the Cleanse and Treatment Departments DRESSING ROOM Noel Hammac Cheryl Dendinger YOU NIGHT BOUTIQUE Julie Hubert Stephanie Rivers POST PARTY ENTERTAINMENT Vivaz Marshall Harris Carl Mack Jesse Lopez STUDENT PHILANTHROPY Halle McKenzie Emma Hubert TURNING THE BEAT AROUND BACKDROP Martha Swint 501(c)3 FISCAL SPONSOR We Lift You Up Fund VENUE PROVIDERS Movie Sets of Slidell The home of Bill & Nancy Reece Castine Center Solomon Episcopal Center TRAINING FACILITY Stone Creek Spa MEDIA PARTNERS Edge of the Lake Magazine LEGACY PARTNER LAKE 94.7 WGNO News with a Twist NewOrleansLocal.com Sophisticated Woman Magazine St. Charles Avenue Magazine The Advocate The St. Tammany Farmer Times Picayune NOLA.COM WDSU WWLTV Hoss Communications WGSO BOUTIQUES Columbia Street Mercantile Southern Bridal Dreams Bliss Boutique Stella Dallas Chico's Mandeville The Villa Ballin's Jean Therapy RETREAT COMMITTEE Gina Pausina Cherry Sue Ellen Stewart Tammy Riley Susan Stewart Tasha Watson Shannon Wilson Lori Upton ST TAMMANY ADVISORY BOARD Lisa McKenzie, You Night Founder Deborah Tonguis, You Night Class of 2017, Programs Team Leader; Board Chairperson, St. Tammany Michael Holmes, CEO, Diagnostic Imaging Services; Knight Coordinator Kathy Oubre, COO, Ponchartrain Cancer Center Tara Huguet, You Night Class of 2017, Administration Dr. Scott Sullivan, Center for Restorative Breast Surgery Dr. Chris Trahan, Center for Restorative Breast Surgery Sarah Cottrell, Publisher, Edge of the Lake Magazine Kelly Villars, PT The Healing House Gayle Lockwood-Reuling, Owner, Air Salon & Blow Dry Bars Dr. Katherine Williams, Center for Women's Health and Sourthern Institute for Women's Sexual Health Deidra Langridge, You Night Class of 2015, Team Leader, St. Tammany Chad Deville, Resensation Dr. Martha E. Stewart, Dermatology Louis WIlliams, Keller Williams Realty NEW ORLEANS ADVISORY BOARD Lisa McKenzie, You Night Founder Board C0=Chair: Walker Dupre, VP & COO of Concerned Care Home Health & Hospice Board Co-Chair: Shannon Dupre, Vice President of Business Development Concerned Care Home Health & Hospice Ruth Avila, Chair, You Night Class of 2015 and You Night New Orleans Team Leader, Board Chair 2019 Dr. Ali Sadeghi, Sadeghi Plastic Surgery Center Michael Holmes, Diagnostic Imaging Services Kristyn Kemp, Chair, You Night Class of 2015 and You Night New Orleans Team Leader Dr. M. Whitten Wise, Center for Restorative Breast Surgery Dr. Joyce Varghese, Pediatric Intensive Care, Ochsner Miranda Mantikos, Timeless Beauty Day Spa and Salon Dr. Jimmy Ellis, Oncologist, West Jefferson Medical Center Dr. Nelly Aoun, Oncologist, West Jefferson Medical Center Dr. Carrie Marquette, East Jefferson Medical Center Carmen Medine, Law Offices of Chip Forstall Meghan Kuhn, Jean Therapy Holley Haag, You Night Class of 2016, You Night Public Relations Clinton Trahant, Red Bull North America Angela Becnel, You Night Corporate Events Logistics Nicole Allison, Bergeron Volvo
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With thanks for the generosity of these community partners who help make our event spectacular.
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PAINT YOUR SCARS ON CANVAS. EXPLORE THE WAY YOU PERCEIVE THEM.
Kenny Lopez, You Night Master of Ceremonies, pictured with You Night Founder Lisa McKenzie
Thank you for attending You Night and experiencing first-hand the power of our incredible sisterhood. The love you felt in the room tonight is something we are blessed to be able to give and receive year-round to any woman who desires a sisterhood of support. We strive daily to understand the many ways we can help women live life to the fullest after a cancer diagnosis. Mental and emotional well-being is vital when it comes to healing from cancer, yet these are two areas that are underserved when it comes to cancer care.. To know that we have the power within our team and within our community to make a significant change is humbling and inspiring. Because of financial support from our sponsors, ticket sales and private donations, we have been able to help 300 women since 2013 in New Orleans and St. Tammany. We are working on a major mental health initiative that will help us dive even deeper into this subject matter so that we can make an even bigger impact locally and hopefully even nationwide. However, we cannot grow without your support. If you share our desire to help women who have had cancer, please consider a donation to our 501(c)3 public charity -- the "WE LIFT YOU UP" fund -- by donating at www.younightevents.com (click the "donate" button). Thank you so much for your support. We hope our program blessed you tonight.
ScART ("Scar Art") is a program created by You Night founder Lisa McKenzie. The program is based on You Night's guiding principal of bringing women together in empowering group experiences -- giving them the opportunity to share what they have been through with others who "get it". A ScART event is a great way for anyone who has surgery scars to meet other survivors to realize they are not alone, and ultimately discovering strength through sisterhood. The resulting artwork is a one-of-a-kind beautiful piece of art that helps tell each individual's story. No painting experience or artistic ability is required. ScART events can be held in any community. If you would like to hold a ScART event, simply write to us! Or visit the ScART website: www.scartevents.com
A Note from Lisa McKenzie, Founder: I believe that God's hands are all over our program, as we are witnessing mightily on a daily basis the blessings we can freely give and receive simply by LOVING ONE ANOTHER. Cancer does not discriminate based on age, shape, size or ethnicity, and neither does You Night. We are brought together under unfortunate circumstances but, with God's promises, we can learn to trust Him and stand strong together to help weather the storm. I have many favorite Bible versus, but this one has a particular important meaning to me. I pray this over our You Night sisters daily. Psalm 91: Whoever dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. I will say of the Lord, "He is my refuge and my fortress, my God, in whom I trust." Surely he will save you from the fowler's snare and from the deadly pestilence. He will cover you with his feathers, and under his wings you will find refuge; his faithfulness will be your shield and rampart. You will not fear the terror of night, nor the arrow that flies by day, nor the pestilence that stalks in the darkness, nor the plague that destroys at midday. A thousand may fall at your side, ten thousand at your right hand, but it will not come near you. God bless each of you and thank you for the love you show to those in need.
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You Night is a sisterhood of support designed around year-round empowering programs.
Being "cancer free" doesn't mean you are free from all that cancer brought or continues to bring in your life. You Night is a program that addresses the on-going needs of women who have had cancer. We offer a unique alternative to cancer support groups, through goal-oriented, team building activities, resulting in a powerful sisterhood of support. We plan year-round activities, including a summer retreat, on-going get-togethers, monthly ScART painting events, and our two signature runway shows. If you know a woman who can benefit from our program, please have them sign up for more information on our website.
Pictured: Last year's St. Tammany graduates -- Class of 2018. Now alumnae members of a 300 person sisterhood